"The reason we struggle with insecurity is because we compare our behind-the-scenes with everyone else’s highlight reel
"When man is born, he is tender and weak
At death, he is stiff and hard
All things, the grass as well as trees, are tender and subtle while alive
When dead, they are withered and dried.
Therefore the stiff and the hard are companions of death
The tender and weak are companions of life
If the tree is stiff, it will break
The strong and the great are inferior, while the tender and the weak are superior.